Leisured coziness

Tea and coffee await you at the Hearthside Inn, Bar Harbor, Maine. June 2012

“The cup of tea on arrival at a country house is a thing which, as a rule, I particularly enjoy. I like the crackling logs, the shaded lights, the scent of buttered toast, the general atmosphere of leisured coziness.”P.G. Wodehouse

Autumn is a wonderful season for tea lovers, and “leisured coziness” is a perfect description of what makes the bed-and-breakfast tea time so appealing. For those of us who are die-hard tea addicts, tea is a treat almost any time or anywhere. But an elegant, comfortably furnished inn on a crisp morning is hard to beat as a setting for the pleasant ritual of making and sipping tea.

Perhaps the only place that is better for such a simple indulgence is home– ours, or a friend’s . Pop a few fresh flowers into a bud vase and some bread into the toaster, and we can re-create the guest house feel in our own kitchens. The essential ingredient, of course, is taking the time to enjoy it properly. Maybe the allure of charming inns lies mostly in the fact that we take more time to relax in such settings. But why wait for a special occasion or a faraway place?

Today or sometime soon, make a date with yourself to spend a bit longer than usual on your tea or coffee break. Grab the novel you’re enjoying, or a colorful magazine, or re-read a recent letter or card from a friend. Sip as slowly as you like, with unlimited refills. If weather allows, open the windows to catch a bit of birdsong and a whiff of fresh air.

The combination of a little caffeine and some quiet, unhurried moments might jump start a droopy mood and energize the day. In any case, if you’re like me, you could use a bit more leisured coziness in your life. October is a perfect time to make it a priority!

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2 Comments

  1. Chris's avatar
    Chris

    Hi Julia,

    Leisured coziness! Since retirement, this is a new state of existence that I have discovered. I’ve also discovered that it’s one that I’m quite fond of. 🤣

    Hope all is good with you and Matt.

    • Julia's avatar

      Hi Chris, I agree with you about retirement. I have to continually beat back all the thoughts about how much better it would be if Jeff and my sister were still here, and all the things we had hoped to do together. There still remains much for which to be thankful, and I try to focus on that. Some days it’s easier to do than others!

Thanks for encouraging others by sharing your thoughts: