There sat the world

The Rose Main Reading Room at the New York Public Library.
Photo by Patrick Robert Doyle via Unsplash

“I was a hugely unchaperoned reader, and I would wander into my local public library and there sat the world, waiting for me to look at it, to find out about it, to discover who I might be inside it.”Patrick Ness

When I was a child, we didn’t have nearly as many children’s books in our home as I would have liked. But we did have quite a few books of general interest, including some really magnificent items, and none of them were off limits to us. I remember spending hours with the books from our modest home library .

Whether I was at home or at the public library, I could spend as much time as I wanted browsing and poring over whatever caught my eye. I don’t remember my parents ever trying to censor or limit my reading. In fact, once when my older brother saw me reading a book called Expectant Motherhood, he felt duty-bound to report it to my mother, feeling certain she would not want me to be exposed to these biological details at an early age. But she just scoffed at his concern, telling him there was no harm in my reading it.

Thus I grew up sensing that information was nothing to fear, and wide-ranging opinions were not dangerous if tested by reason, logic and fact. I connected immediately with the quote by Ness, especially his description of himself as “a hugely unchaperoned reader.” For all the adventures I would later experience through travel, my earliest explorations were made possible by public and school libraries.

It’s never too late to set out on an unchaperoned voyage of discovery, and you need travel no farther than your public library, much of which you now can access directly via your home computer. Unlike the structured reading done in the context of classes and assignments, solo expeditions at the library allow you to follow your own pathways and timetables. There sits the world, waiting for you– send us a few postcards of your most interesting finds!

Happy Birthday to my sister, who read to me and taught me to read.

This post was first published seven years ago today. It is my sister’s birthday, the second one since she died so unexpectedly in 2024. I still miss her immensely and intensely, every single day.

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4 Comments

  1. Chris's avatar
    Chris

    Hi Julia,

    Happy birthday to Carla! I know you miss her, your sister, your best friend. But the memories remain precious. That picture of Carla reading to you is adorable! Teaching you to read, Carla was giving at such an early age. Destined to be a teacher, I suppose. 😊

    And your gift to us is the sharing of your special memories. Thank you!

    As we enter the Lenten Season, I wish you a contemplative journey filled with rest and rejuvenation.

    • Julia's avatar

      Thank you, Chris. Unlike many (including me) who switch majors in college, Carla knew from the beginning exactly what she intended to major in, and never had any questions along the way. She went from college directly into the classroom of a brand-new elementary school in Atlanta, and stayed in education for the rest of her life, obtaining a Master’s degree along the way and making a difference in many lives. But even I was amazed at the hundreds of people who flocked to her funeral. They were lined up out the door when I arrived, and the funeral started nearly two hours late because of all the people lined up to file past her casket and greet the family. Few of us realize the difference that positive attitude from a quiet, humble person can make in this world.

      This season has been a blessed one for me, and I hope it has been for you and Jeanne!

  2. suzypax's avatar

    Good morning, Julia!

    I love the story about your brother and Expectant Motherhood!

    A very good side effect to ALL that reading is that your writing is balanced in influence. It is all your own expression. I enjoy reading it!

    I know it has been hard for you without Carla. She must have been so proud to have taught you to read! What a wonderful connection!

    • Julia's avatar

      Thank you, Susan. For me (and for countless others) reading has made the world simultaneously larger and smaller, as we learn of differences and, more importantly, of what we all share.

      I miss Carla every single day. All day I see reminders of the joys we used to share. She not only taught me to read, but to appreciate life.

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