A song for all the years

Wishing you a wonder-filled Christmas with a touch of childlike faith.
That’s Owen and Grady sitting in front of our Christmas tree, December 23, 2018.

“Christmas Eve was a night of song that wrapped itself about you like a shawl. But it warmed more than your body. It warmed your heart… filled it, too, with a melody that would last forever. Even though you grew up and found you could never quite bring back the magic feeling of this night, the melody would stay in your heart always – a song for all the years.”Bess Streeter Aldrich

When I was a child, Christmas Eve was the most magical day of the year, the anticipation sweeter than the gifts and feasting and holidays from school that would follow. Throughout my adult years I found, as so many do, that December 24 had increasingly become a day of mixed emotions at best, deep sorrow at worst. But Aldrich is right; the melody stayed in my heart.

Perhaps you are reading this amid the busy preparations for a festive time with family and friends. Your day may be filled with affection, connection, and the sweetness of shared laughter. If so, I rejoice with you. I have known the enchantment of such holiday happiness, and it is like nothing else on this earth.

But you may be facing Christmas with a broken heart, having recently been parted from dear ones through death, estrangement or geographic separation. You may be reeling from having just received a terminal diagnosis, or recovering from life-threatening surgery, or sitting, even as you read this, at the bedside of a family member who is hospitalized.

Perhaps you face financial difficulties due to a loss of employment or unexpected expenses. Or maybe your sadness has no immediate specific cause, yet you feel empty and alone at a time when it seems the entire world is merry.

If you are feeling wistful or forlorn today, I truly sympathize. But listen closely– can you hear the melody, however faint, that is still playing somewhere in your memory? Let’s turn up the volume on that celestial music. Just for today, let its otherworldly message of joy drown out the cacophony of strife, gloom and despair.

I wish you “tidings of comfort and joy” that will wrap in you warmth and wonder.

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4 Comments

  1. suzypax's avatar

    Good morning, Julia!

    This year is Mom’s first Christmas without Dad.

    Of course, it has been almost 9 months so far, of “first without Dad.” It hasn’t been going well. I’m praying that she can see the love and support that she has, right where she is. It’s hard on her and it’s hard to watch.

    • Julia's avatar

      Susan, there are a couple of things I have believed since I was a child. One, it would seem much kinder to me if long-married people were allowed to leave this earth at the same time, and two, the longer the two were together, the harder and more sad the inevitable parting would be. I can imagine how hard/sad/helpless it feels to be there for your mother at this time. Just know that your presence alone is the best gift you could give her right now. I’ll try to focus on praying for you both especially at this season. I hope you are able to experience comfort, joy, and peace that pass understanding during this time of healing and transition.

  2. Sheila's avatar
    Sheila

    Good morning, my Verandah friend like no other! Christmas has changed over our years together here, but yet the meaning and the story of the Christ child remains the same, year after many years. Enjoy your Christmas Eve and holiday season. We’ll meet on that favorite Verandah again. Love crosses the miles. Merry Christmas

    • Julia's avatar

      Sheila, a mysterious flat package arrived, and even though I can guess what it might be, I’m saving it to open on Christmas Day. Now that school is over for me (at least for awhile) I’m hoping for more Verandah time in 2026. The older I get, the more fun it is, just sittin’ and sippin’! Thank you for your steadfast and enduring friendship. Love crossing the miles right back at you and the Vann Clan, along with many happy memories of our human, furry and feathered friends who have left this earth. All the best for 2026!

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